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NO TEST, NO TESTIMONY

  NO TEST, NO TESTIMONY   I Peter 4 v 13 ; But rejoice, inasmuch as ye are partakers of Christ's sufferings; that, when his glory shall be revealed, ye may be glad also with exceeding joy.   Proverbs 17 v 3 The fining pot is for silver, and the furnace for gold: but the LORD trieth the hearts.   The bible says rejoice, despite suffering, he said so you can be glad when his glory comes. Christianity is not all about celebration and jubilation, there is also time for tribulation. Test is an affliction; the test of life is a type of affliction that every believer must go through. It is so sad that believers do not want to experience the suffering of Christ but they want His prosperity.   Psalm 34 v 19 Many are the afflictions of the righteous: but the LORD delivereth him out of them all.   Child of God, if you have not gone through affliction then your Christianity is still questionable. If God does not shake you, He cannot use y...
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WISDOM TO BUILD A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP

 

 

                         Enjoy Marital Bliss Like APOSTLE JOHNSON SULEMAN (MY SPIRITUAL FATHER)

 Wisdom is knowing what to do and doing it correctly. There are no ideal men or women, your ideal man or woman is already married and it your responsibility to make your own relationship work.

·        Accept that every relationship has their challenges (Bible Ref. Proverbs 14:4). (Proverbs 24:1-6)

Challenges in relationship is not a sign of incompatibility. It could be a display of sincerity of character or attitude you need to work on. If there are no challenges in a relationship, then know that someone is pretending (Bible Ref. Proverbs 27:4-6).

Don’t expect your partner to be perfect. There is no perfect marriage/relationship but there is a perfect God who has enough grace for our imperfections.

·        You must be a forgiver

Marriage is the union of two forgivers. If you are ready to forgive them, get ready to be single even after marriage forever. You cannot build a successful relationship if you are not a forgiver. Forgive and love as Jesus did. Anyone dating an unforgiver is asking for danger because you will reap the fruits of their ex-behavior. People who do not forgive end up punishing their spouse over the mistakes of their ex.

·        You must be transparent

It is difficult to find true love in this generation of “fake it until you make it”. A love with secrecy is not love, it’s fake. If you love yourself, you will be open. So many people are deceived by secrete love relationship.

Always many sure you operate an open relationship except you are not sure of what you want. If someone truly loves you he or she will make it public after for at least two months of knowing yourselves.

How to Tell the Difference Between Real and False Love:

Real love accepts you for who you are and strives to improve you.

False love tries to mold you into their idealized version of yourself.

 Real love allows you to be free.

False love is oppressive and overpowering.

Genuine love is selfless

False love simply cares about itself.

Real love offers from the bottom of one's heart.

False love offers because it expects something in exchange.

Real love is forgiving.

False love wants retaliation

 

You have two hands: one for self-help and the other for helping others. Even when you don't expect anything in return, real love provides. (Bible Ref. 2 Corinthians 9:11;Matthew 5:16)

Avoid channelling anger from your previous relationship to your current one. Men and women are not homogenous. (Bible Ref. Romans 12:19-20).

  THANKS FOR READING.

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