WISDOM FOR DAILY LIVING

                             Enjoy Marital  Bliss Like APOSTLE JOHNSON SULEMAN (MY SPIRITUAL FATHER)   Wisdom is knowing what to do and doing it correctly. There are no ideal men or women, your ideal man or woman is already married and it your responsibility to make your own relationship work. ·         Accept that every relationship has their challenges (Bible Ref. Proverbs 14:4) .  (Proverbs 24:1-6) Challenges in relationship is not a sign of incompatibility. It could be a display of sincerity of character or attitude you need to work on. If there are no challenges in a relationship, then know that someone is pretending (Bible Ref. Proverbs 27:4-6) . Don’t expect your partner to be perfect. There is no perfect marriage/relationship but there is a perfect God who has enough grace for our imperfections. ·         Y...

27  Dieu créa l'homme à son image, il le créa à l'image de Dieu. Il créa l'homme et la femme. 28  Dieu les bénit et leur dit: «Reproduisez-vous, devenez nombreux, remplissez la terre et soumettez-la! Dominez sur les poissons de la mer, sur les oiseaux du ciel et sur tout animal qui se déplace sur la terre!» Genèse 1:27-28 (Louis Second Bible) Le mariage est une idée de Dieu et non de l’homme, c’est pour cela que nous devons suivre ses principes. Dieu est l’auteur du mariage, pas l’homme, et la Bible est le manuel pour que tout couple chrétien puisse jouir d’un bonheur marital. Tout comme il y a des lois qui gouvernent chaque nation, ainsi il y a des lois et principes qui gouvernent chaque mariage Chrétien. La plupart du temps ces lois ne sont pas plaisantes pour nous, mais nous devons nous y conformer puisque nous sommes dans un royaume de principes. Une personne sans loi est une personne sans vie. « Il leur répondit: Et vous, pourquoi transgressez-vous le commandeme...

9  Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. 10  For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up. 11  Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone? 12  And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4 :9-12 (KJV) Marriage is God’s idea not mans, that is why we must follow God’s principles. God is the author of marriage not man and the bible is the manual for every Christian couple to enjoy marital rest. Just as there are laws that governs every nation so also, there are laws and/or principles that govern every Christian marriage. Most times, these laws do not appeal to us but we must abide by them as we are in the kingdom of principles. A lawless person ends up lifeless. 3  But he answered and said unto them, Why do ye also transgr...

  The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the  Lord  thy God. Deuteronomy 22:5 Friendship can be positive or negative, it can either have a positive or negative influence in our lives and marriage. Friendship with the opposite sex can destroy your marriage or intending marital relationship if it goes too far, too close and unchecked. However, it can be healthy if you and your spouse take the necessary steps to ensure that that relationship meet the standards and boundaries you have both established. When you made the decision to get married, you made a decision to prioritize your marriage and that involves channeling your energy and focus on your marital relationship. This does not mean that you should totally rule off your other friendships, it only means that if you have friendships with the opposite sex that you wish to keep, there are very important questions that...